Top Questions to Ask Your OBGYN and Lactation Consultant in the Hospital

Bringing your baby into the world is one of the most exciting—and overwhelming—moments of your life. Between postpartum recovery, adjusting to life with a newborn, and learning to breastfeed, your hospital stay can feel like a blur. That’s why it’s so important for new moms to ask the right questions before heading home.

Both your OBGYN and your lactation consultant are there to support you during this transition. Take all the time you need to get clear, supportive answers in the hospital. Trust me: This will help you feel more prepared for postpartum healing and set you up for breastfeeding success.

This guide covers the top questions new moms should ask in the hospital—so you can leave feeling confident, supported, and ready for the journey ahead.

Questions to Ask Your OBGYN After Birth

Your OBGYN will focus on your recovery, healing, and long-term health after delivery. Don’t be shy about asking:

• What should I expect in the first few weeks postpartum?
  Ask what you can expect physically and emotionally, including bleeding, cramping, and hormone shifts.
• How do I know if my stitches/incision are healing correctly?
  Whether you had a vaginal delivery or a C-section, understanding warning signs of infection or complications will give you peace of mind.
• When can I safely resume exercise?
  Many moms are eager to know when they can get back to their normal routines.
• What pain management options are safe while breastfeeding?
  Clarify which medications you can take without affecting your milk supply or baby.
• What follow-up appointments should I schedule?
  Postpartum care doesn’t stop when you leave the hospital.

Questions to Ask a Lactation Consultant in the Hospital

If you plan to breastfeed, your lactation consultant is your best resource during those first feedings. Lactation support after birth is crucial! Helpful questions include:

• Can you watch me nurse and check my baby’s latch?
  Sometimes a small adjustment makes nursing more comfortable and effective.
• How often should my baby feed?
  Understanding what’s normal when it comes to feeding your newborn will help you relax and trust the process.
• How do I know my baby is getting enough milk?
  Ask about wet diapers, weight checks, and hunger cues. There are several things to look out for to help you better know if your baby is getting enough milk. 
• What are the most commonly used nursing positions?
  Every mom and baby is different—your consultant can suggest positions that work for your body. Here are a few common nursing holds. 
• What should I do if I experience pain, cracked nipples, or engorgement?
  Early guidance can prevent small issues from becoming bigger problems.
• Can you show me how to hand-express or use a pump?
  Even if you’re not pumping right away, it’s good to learn the basics

Questions for Both Your Doctor and Your Lactation Consultant

Some questions overlap and are worth asking both your OBGYN and lactation consultant:

• Are there any health concerns (for me or my baby) that might affect breastfeeding?
• Which resources or support groups do you recommend once I’m home?
• Who should I call if I need help in the middle of the night?

Your hospital stay is short, but the answers you get from your care team can make a lasting difference. Don’t hesitate to write down your questions in advance—because once your little one arrives, it’s easy to forget!